Dont live A "Whatever" Life!!!

I know its been long since I wrote in somethin.. Was home on vacation.. This time I'm gonna post lyrics of this song by Haylie Duff... The lyrics are something I truly feel n so I thought what better than just posting the lyrics here for what I feel... Here they go...

Did I hear you say "Whatever"
Turn and walk away forever
Was it my mistake or did we just get too close?
Well till we meet again I think you better learn to

Live for the sake of living
Love till your heart is breaking
Give your all and dont hold back,
Tell the truth and dont forget to Laugh till your body's aching
Cry till your hands are shaking
Wherever you go, whatever you do dont live a whatever life.

Betcha think its cool to never
Care about the things that matter
Was it just a dream or did we feel something real?
You'll be all alone until you finally start to

Live for the sake of living
Love till your heart is breaking
Give your all and dont hold back, tell the truth and dont forget to Laugh till your body's aching
Cry till your hands are shaking
Wherever you go, whatever you do dont live a whatever life.

It's been a long time waiting till I'm moving on.
I'm ready to be strong and Live for the sake of living,
Love till my heart is breakin!!

Cry On Your Own...

It starts easily like all of them do
Then after a while you'll beg for the truth
Trust would vanish and faith will be no good
Make me a memory and do it with speed
Just open your eyes and follow my lead

For all your episodes what have I to show
Just one fickle heart and we're all alone
Your mounting misery so tenderly meek
It can't find its way when you open to speak

Get away from me don't hurt me more...
If you need to cry just cry on your own...

Live-In Relationships... What Say?

Live Ins… hmmmm….. Almost everyone has an opinion on this one... An increasing number of couples today prefer to live together before actually tying the knot. It makes me wonder… why would someone want to go to such lengths to test a relationship? Can testing a relationship ensure you a longer lasting happy marriage? Keeping the moral issues aside, there are a lot of studies that show that living in with your partner before marriage, first- reduces the possibility of a marriage at all and second- increases the risk of divorce!!

I am still old school on this one, I feel Love and understanding is enough for two people to feel that their relationship is strong and that they will always be together. I have been through ups and downs in relationships but I still have hope that when I am in love, I would not have to test my relationship by giving it a dry run, like some rehearsal dinner!! I think its important to marry cuz the love that we all want from a partner is not possible without both having the commitment to try to make it last. N I really don’t think two people can actually be truly committed to each other without marriage. So, that’s my thought… what do you think?

PS: I still luurrvee being single and marriage is no where on my charts right now! ;)

Chivalrous Men- A Dying Breed?

I was talking to this colleague of mine at work today and the usual discussion of “Oh you are a woman, you get the special treatment all the time!” started off… It struck me to know that my friend here felt that, men who are chivalrous have forgotten to live like a “Real Man.” Makes me wonder…

Does the so called macho man feel that a chivalrous man is a lesser “Man?” Don’t you feel that even having this kind of an attitude is robbing men of what women actually want from them? Somehow no matter how much women speak about equality, the “damsel in distress” situation is still common! Every woman would want her guy to save her off her life’s issues once in a while. This certainly does not mean that she cannot do things on her own but only sometimes she would love to see her man get her out of situations! Equality between men and women works well in the workplace or among peers but in a relationship? Naaa…. There the lady needs to be treated like one… C’mon guys if you love her show her you respect her and be chivalrous… Why make such a fuss about it?